The ‘D’ Word
Now ladies, don’t go denying this subject! Maybe it slipped out one night. Perhaps it was said because it just felt like the right thing to say at the time. One way or another, it happened!
This Father’s Day, I stumbled upon many wide open closets with no need to dig. These women responded promptly when asked about the subject of calling their lover “Daddy” or being called that during sex. One woman even considered it to be something she said comfortably outside of sex...
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If someone was to come to me prior to 2011 and state that I would one day be viewed as a public figure in the LGBTQ community my response would have been that they were mistaken and completely out of their mind.
I’ve been a quiet and lost member of this community since the age of 16.
Growing up I was the eldest of 4 kids and believe me when I say I did not grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth.
Throughout my adolescence I was bullied and beaten up every day for being different. Not only did I not come from a family that was made of riches, I came from a family of Haitian Americans. My mom insisted that she would not let me be corrupted by the black American culture (whatever that meant) and my peers had determined that I was not worthy to be an American.
The saying “Kids can be so ...
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Has this ever happened to you? As a lesbian, I’ve been approached with:
“I just don’t understand. If you like women, then how can you be sexually attracted to women who look and act like men?”
Well, have you actually ever really sat down and thought about it or is that question stuffed in the back of the closet with those old Christmas decorations? As a proud woman of my orientation, I have felt that individuals who felt the need to question my preference in women didn’t deserve an answer. However, questions like this occur so often that one has to actually ask themselves that very question. This Sunday, I’m digging beyond those Christmas decorations to investigate just why some of us femmes can’t get enough of those studs!
“Personally, I don’t care what she describes he...
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So the seasons have truly changed and now your trying to figure out the next step to connect with this season of your life. The wind is blowing a little different yet you are still connected to things of the past. The shoes you wear, they bought…..the ring you love so much, it is connected to a memory……your dwelling place you leased, bought, or purchased with them, you still stay in the same place with all those memories. Your still connected to your past and although the seasons are changing, you have not.
Fantasia’s “Lose To Win” has a powerful theme to it. “Sometimes you got to Lose to Win again.” I take it as losing things (letting things go that are no longer serving you) that need to be released so that you can win (go to the next level of your life)...
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These days, in our community, women have been growing more and more open-minded on the subject of sex and relationships. This subject, however, is still fresh and new to the scene for many. The subject leaves curious minds wondering while closed minds bury it in the closet. Well, in this blog, I’m taking my first trip to the back of that closet to present the subject of Polyamory to our fellow sisters.
POLYAMORY: the state or practice of having more than one open romantic relationship at a time
poly·am·or·ist \-rist\ noun
poly·am·o·rous \-ˈa-mə-rəs, -ˈam-rəs\ adjective
Some identify this way of life as “swinging” while others refer to it as just having more than one relationship at a time...